College students in Mauritius belong to the age
group 13 – 20. This is a crucial phase for the adolescents where they undergo
not only physical but also emotional and psychological changes. It is a time of
discovery for them but could also be one of disorientation if they are not
surrounded by the right people. Co-education is important during adolescence as
it helps the girls and boys to understand one another better. It enables them
to shed their inhibitions and interact with greater ease. This in turn will
lead to healthy relationships between both genders in and outside the college
premises. Single-sex colleges cannot claim to prepare the students for life
because they do not train the students to take their place naturally in a
community comprising of both men and women.
The role of colleges is not only limited to
equipping students with the necessary skills and knowledge that will enable
them to get a job or pursue a degree later on. They are supposed to reflect the
same patterns of interaction seen in the larger society. Today, in every field
one has to interact with the other sex. Then, why make segregation at college
level?
Mixed colleges are widespread in countries like
UK, USA and over the years have become prevalent in more conservative countries
like India as well. However, in Mauritius, things have not changed on this
front. Almost all the colleges across
the island are still single-gender ones. Why has co-education at college level
not been enforced by the government?
MGI is a mixed college and so far there have been
no issues. Mixed colleges cannot therefore be blindly tagged as being
responsible for adolescents going astray. If parental and teachers’ guidance
are not there, be it a mixed or single-sex college, mishaps are likely to
happen. There need to be a change in the mindset of conservative parents. They
should be able to talk openly with their children so that the latter can
differentiate between right and wrong. Often, it is the curiosity of adolescents
which land them in trouble.
Mauritian colleges need to stop being “ivory
towers” that stand in contrast to the larger society. Boys and girls should be
given the chance to be normal in their relationship during adolescence and not
kept apart. What they will learn from and about each other during that period
will prove to be a brilliant foundation for their relationships later on in
life since their approach would be more realistic as they will not be having
any misconceptions about the other sex.
And the inadvertently controversial debate goes on...
--K.Singh and A.Heerah
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